A different way to deal with bullying

Bullying is relationship problem with others and it is needed to be solved. It may involve verbal harassment, physical assault and may be directed persistently towards particular victims, perhaps on grounds of race, religion, gender, sexuality, or ability. Bullying is wrong! It is behaviour that makes the person being bullied feel afraid or uncomfortable. I agree that we need to deal bullying in a different way. We have two options: "No-blame" method and "Punishing bullies" method. I will pick the "no-blame" method, continue reading this and you will find why I picked this.

We need to treat bullies in a different way and by not punishing them. We can use the "no-blame" method because you will not hurt the bullies feelings. They are still a child too. We don't need to punish them but we can just let them do community service, its much more better. Like what Mitchell's family said in the article ",Save the child, because he is just a child too." It means that they don't want the person to be punish or anything else. Bullies are still child too, maybe they are just doing this things because they have some problems of there own.

I picked the "no-blame" method because I think that it will help the bullies. But I also thought about the victims, it might be unfair to them because the bullies probably hurt his/her feelings by verbal or physical. If the schools used the "no-blame" method there will be no consequences to the bullies anymore, that's why I thought about the community service.

There should be no punishment to bullies, instead of staying at home, just let them go to school and help the teachers. We have to be educating the bullies. Many of us were told to ignore our bullies or just let it go and the bully will stop leaving them alone. But it doesn't work, the school should teach the bullies some lessons like how are the victims feel or something else. Many communities are putting in place ways of children to report bullying so that they are not pointed out and don't feel like they are "tattletailing". I don't want anyone to be called tattle tailing because it hurts their feelings.

I want the bullies to change, like a normal student going to school, being nice to others and having lots of friends. I hope the "no-blame" method could be approach to bullies, because we have a bigger chance of getting rid of bullies and turning them into normal students. I don't want anyone to be hurt by somebody else because of what they have in themselves. I don't want anyone to be called tattle tailing because it hurts their feelings. That is my opinion about the article A different way to deal with bullying.